The ones who are hardest to love..

Everyday I’m learning to be more forgiving and understanding. 

Everyone is the way they are for a reason. It doesn’t excuse people’s  bad behaviour and it doesn’t make it right but it’s important to always attempt to understand why people act the way they do.

  It’s so easy to jump to conclusions about people, but life has taught me to trust my instinct but also that there’s always  two sides to a story. 

Insecurities, jealousy and bullying are all  very negative, but it all boils down to feeling secure in yourself  and feeling loved. We need to be loved and shown love  to feel secure and confident. We need praise to feel proud of ourselves  and be great in life. Even if you disagree and don’t need these things you would have had then growing up which is the most important time of all. 

That girl who’s insecure because she thinks she isn’t as pretty as her friend. The jealous boyfriend who thinks his girlfriend is always cheating, and the bully who puts people down and belittles them. They are all people who were probably let down in life and are taking their anger and frustrations on innocent people. Sometimes the ones who are the hardest to love need it the most.

  But it’s not just about the victims becoming more understanding and think about things more deeply, it’s up to the insecure people too. Only we can fix ourselves, and you have to love yourself no matter what. 

It’s a vicious circle. You behave in a vile way and people dislike you, and you hate yourself even more. Cue frustration, anger, more vile behaviour. It’s a disastrous repetitive cycle.

As someone  who can be insecure myself, it’s something I work on everyday. Sometimes you just have to be nice to everybody and be kind even when you don’t like them or  when you feel the green eyed monster comes in to play.  Most people feel jealous  or threatened by people occasionally. 

  Jealousy is ugly, and makes people act very nastily  towards others because they are scared. It’s   basically fear, fear of not being good enough. 

Don’t mind what others do.  Get busy being awesome and being the leading man or lady in your own show.  X

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